It is Not About Me
Most service people would hold that their military careers are not about them they are about those they serve: their country, their fellow citizens, their families, the mission. This concept is part of the foundation of military ethics. According to Professor James H. Toner of the Air War College: Military ethics based upon "me-ism" or "egotism" cannot function. Military ethics is about knowing whom and what we owe. . . . (Service men and women) must understand that they owe a debt of gratitude to their country, families, services, chain of command, and comrades. That is exactly what is meant by "service before self" (in the Air Force), "selfless service" (in the Army), or "commitment" (in the Navy and Marine Corps). Military ethics cannot properly exist without the concept of owing. If we know why we owe what we do, we are able to recognize the obligation, responsibility, and duty which give rise to moral thinking an...